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Perhaps the most common cause of
slow weight gain is related to
mismanaged breastfeeding. The
following are some ways to help your
baby gain weight if breastfeeding
management is the reason for the
slow weight-gain pattern.
Watch for signs from your baby
that he/she wants to feed. Your
baby should wake and "cue" to
breastfeed about eight to 12
times in 24 hours by rooting,
making licking or sucking
motions, bobbing his/her head
against the mattress, your neck
or a shoulder, or bringing
his/her hand to the face or
mouth. Put him/her to your
breast right then. Crying is a
late feeding cue. Usually a baby
latches and breastfeeds better
if he/she does not have to wait
until he/she is crying,
frustrated, or too tired to
feed. Putting a baby off to try
to get the baby to go longer
between feedings and frequently
offering a pacifier instead of
the breast when a baby
demonstrates feeding cues are
often linked to poor weight
gain.
Many mothers find milk
production increases and babies'
weight gains improve if they and
their babies let chores and
activities go for two or three
days, so they can breastfeed,
more or less, around the clock.
When a baby is not
breastfeeding, the mother holds
him/her skin-to-skin on her
chest, which often helps her
become more sensitive to the
baby's feeding cues.
If your baby is a "sleepy" baby
who does not cue to feed at
least eight times in 24 hours,
you will have to wake the baby
to feed frequently - about every
two hours during the daytime and
evening hours and at least every
three to four hours at night
until weight gain improves.
Be sure your baby is mainly
uncovered during breastfeeding.
A baby that is bundled
papoose-style seems to get much
too warm and comfy, and he/she
is more likely to doze off too
quickly during feedings. If
there is a chill in the air,
drape a sheet or light blanket
over you and the baby, as
needed.
If your baby falls asleep within
minutes of latching on, massage
your breast as you breastfeed to
re-trigger sucking by stroking
downward and inward on the
breast.
Make sure your baby is latching
on correctly and sucking
effectively.
In general, avoid "switch
nursing." That is, breastfeeding
at one breast for a few minutes,
then the other, and then back
again. This may interfere with
your baby getting enough of the
calorie-rich hindmilk, which
your baby gets more of as a
feeding continues on one breast.
However, the "switch" strategy
sometimes stimulates the
"sleepy" baby so he/she wakes up
and begins sucking again.
Offer a supplement during, or
after, breastfeeding (when
prescribed) to provide
additional calories. Use your
own expressed milk first for any
alternative feedings if any
supplementary feedings are
recommended.
Use an alternative feeding
method recommended by a
certified lactation consultant (IBCLC).
There are many alternative
feeding options, so let her know
if a recommendation does not
"feel right" for you.
Alternative feeding methods
include:
cup feeding
a tube system with a special
feeding tube taped to the
breast or a finger
syringe feeding
an eyedropper
spoon feeding
bottle-feeding
Several methods require
assistance from a professional,
such as a certified lactation
consultant (IBCLC) so you can
use them correctly. Depending on
your baby and the cause of the
problem, some methods may work
better than others. Also,
discuss bottle nipple type with
the IBCLC if you bottle-feed any
supplement. Some types of bottle
nipples are less likely to
interfere with breastfeeding
than others.
Pump your breasts after as many
daily breastfeedings as
possible, especially if you are
uncertain whether your baby is
effectively removing milk during
breastfeeding. Pumping will
remove milk effectively, so your
breasts will know to produce
more milk. Ideally, you would
use a hospital-grade, electric
pump with the appropriate
collection kit to obtain milk.
Your baby should be weighed on a
frequent and regular basis until
he/she is gaining weight at a
satisfactory rate. Digital
scales are available that allow
a healthcare provider or a
certified lactation consultant (IBCLC)
to get precise pre- and
post-feeding weights in order to
measure how much milk a baby
takes in during a particular
breastfeeding. Although this can
be helpful, babies take in
different amounts at different
feedings throughout a 24-hour
period. Therefore, a
professional may recommend that
parents rent this type of scale
so a baby can be weighed before
and after different feedings.
They also may suggest recording
only a daily or weekly weight,
depending on the situation.
If
breastfeeding is properly managed,
yet the baby still is not gaining
adequate weight, it is likely that
some other factor is affecting milk
production or the baby's ability to
breastfeed effectively. Always
consult your physician in this case.
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